They always say that prevention is better than cure. Pre-marriage counseling is a type of prevention for couples that makes people more prepared and aware of each other. In fact, in marriage counseling sessions, a third person, with enough experience and expertise in this field, observes all the behaviors and after talking to both people, expresses his opinion. Usually, people are under high stress before marriage. They are drowning in the initial excitement of familiarity; As a result, they cannot make a proper decision by examining all aspects and manage the continuation of the relationship in the best way. One of the most important issues that every person who plans to get married should consider is pre-marital counseling.
Sometimes people, before marriage, have a dream image of married life and think that there is no problem after that. In fact, you may imagine that everything will fall into place automatically and no preparation for marriage is necessary; While the truth is something else. This is where the necessity of pre-marital counseling becomes clear; Because these meetings help the parties to become familiar with the realities of marriage, which can be pleasant or unpleasant, and after understanding these realities, make the most appropriate decision. When dating or courting, due to compliments and self-censorship, all Personal facts of people are not revealed in conversations; Marriage counseling helps both parties to get to know each other better. In addition, another important topic that is addressed in marriage counseling sessions is helping to acquire different skills to create a healthy relationship and planning for after marriage. Also, the consultant examines the differences that may arise in the future, according to class, personality and religious differences.
